In the realm of legal proceedings, the future outcome of a case remains uncertain until the very end. Therefore, it’s imperative to adopt a balanced approach: aim for amicable settlements while simultaneously gearing up for potential trials. This echoes the age-old wisdom of the Romans encapsulated in the adage “si vis pacem para bellum” – if you desire peace, prepare for war. While courtroom battles may not equate to literal warfare, the underlying principle holds true. Hopefulness alone cannot substitute meticulous preparation. Securing a fair settlement hinges on being armed with all pertinent facts required for trial. How else can one discern a favorable agreement when it arises? Moreover, negotiating from a position of strength mandates readiness for negotiation breakdowns. Vital inquiries must be addressed: where does your spouse stand financially? What income sources do they possess? What evidence underscores your suitability as the primary caregiver for your children? And crucially, how will you substantiate these facts before a judge? My legal practice revolves around addressing these pivotal questions and presenting compelling arguments in court when necessary.